Youâre Not a Bad Parent. You Just Donât Have a Plan That Works Yet.
The Calm Home Method⢠gives you a clear behavior roadmap, inâhome support, and tools you can actually use with your child.
Trusted by over 100 San Diego families navigating big behaviors at home and school. âââââ
Step 1: Behavior Roadmap Sessionâ˘
Step 2: Your Calm Home Blueprint⢠(12âWeek Plan)
Step 3:Â 10 InâHome Breakthrough Sessions + Ongoing Support
If youâre here, itâs probably because:
- Your child goes from âfineâ to full meltdown over what seems like nothing.
- Every day feels like a power struggle or negotiation.
Youâre tired of yelling, apologizing, and then lying awake thinking,
âWhat is going on? I canât keep doing this.â
Youâve tried:
- Talking calmly and explaining
- Reward charts and consequences
- New schools, new routines, new therapists
âŚand you still feel helpless, guilty, and out of control in your own home.
Youâre not failing your child.
You just havenât been given a clear, personalized system and handsâon support that fits how your child and family actually work.
Thatâs what the Calm Home Method⢠was built for.
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- Your child still has big feelings, but blowâups are less chaotic because you know what to do before, during, and after.
- Mornings, homework, bedtime, and getting out the door have predictable routines instead of constant battles.
- You hear yourself responding in ways youâre actually proud of.
- Your child recovers from hard moments faster and feels safer with you.
- You and your partner are more aligned, using the same language and tools.
- School calls donât send your stomach into a knot every time the phone rings.
Many Calm Home Method⢠families describe this kind of shift after working the plan and practicing with support.
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What Other San Diego Parents Say After Working With EY Through the Calm Home Methodâ˘
Support that meets your child where they areâand empowers you along the way.
What Parents Have Reported in Our Internal Review âââââ
In an internal review of 60 families weâve supported through our services (including therapy and parentâfocused programs), parents reported:
- 92%Â saw a decrease in aggressive behaviors within three months
- 83%Â noticed improvements in communication and social skills
- 71%Â reported fewer problem behaviors such as tantrums
- 100%Â reported at least a 70% reduction in selfâharm during the program
These numbers reflect what some families experienced while actively participating in our programs.
Every child and family is different, and these results are not a guarantee of what any specific child or family will experience.
Why Youâre Stuck (Itâs Not Just âBad Parentingâ)
We see this over and over:
- You've tried logic and lectures đŹ
âI explained what she should have done.â
You walk them through what went wrong, hoping it will sink in next time. It rarely does. - You change everything around them đ
New schools. More breaks. Different routines. Avoiding triggers.
Things improve for a bit⌠then new behaviors pop up somewhere else. - You âexplore therapyâ đ
School counselors, outpatient therapy, maybe insuranceâbased services. You get pieces of advice, but not one simple, written plan for your real life at home.
Meanwhile, this is what plays in your head:
âIâm not able to control the situation.â
âI donât know how to help my child.â
âMaybe Iâm just not cut out for this.â
The problem isnât that you donât care enough.
The problem is that no one has come into your actual home, mapped your childâs patterns in context, and walked you through a realistic plan stepâbyâstep.
Calm Home Method⢠exists to change that.
How the Calm Home Method⢠Works
Parenting a child with big behaviors requires more than tips or another weekly session. The Calm Home Method⢠is a 12âweek, parentâled system that:
- Maps whatâs really going on (Behavior Roadmap Sessionâ˘)
- Turns it into a clear home plan (Calm Home Blueprintâ˘)
- Practices it with you in real life (InâHome Breakthrough Sessions + support)
Behavior Roadmap Sessionâ˘
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We come into your home (for eligible San Diego areas) and do a 360° deep dive on:
âWhen and where behaviors show up
âTriggers and hidden patterns that keep things stuck
âWhat youâve already tried and why it hasnât worked
This isnât a diagnostic or clinic intake. Itâs a practical, parentâcentered session designed to finally make sense of whatâs going on.
Calm Home Blueprint⢠(Your Behavior Breakthrough Blueprint⢠+ 12âWeek Plan)
After the session, we create a written, stepâbyâstep plan that fits:
âYour routines (mornings, evenings, weekends, outings)
â Your childâs strengths, challenges, and nervous system
â Your actual bandwidth as parents
Youâll know exactly what weâre focusing on each week over the 12âweek program.
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What Makes This Different
- Inâhome, not just in an office
We work where the actual problems happen: your kitchen, living room, car, bedtime routine. - Parent + child focused
We support your child and coach you, so the skills live in your family long after the program is done. - Structured, not endless
This is a defined 12âweek method with a clear beginning, middle, and end â not âsee you once a week forever.â - Conciergeâstyle access
Limited families at a time, with real access to your team via the Calm Home Hotlineâ˘. - Family & school alignment
The Family Alignment System and School Alliance Support Program help caregivers and school get on the same page. - Not Therapy. Not Billed to Insurance.
Calm Home Method⢠is a separate, privateâpay program. Itâs a parentâled, inâhome coaching and implementation system designed for real life at home.Â
We still do structured inâhome sessions with your child and with you â Those sessions are used to help you implement your Calm Home Blueprint⢠into your real routines at home â they are not billed as insuranceâbased therapy.
Calm Home Method⢠â 12âWeek Private Program
(San Diego area)
Behavior Roadmap Session⢠(InâHome)
Calm Home Blueprint⢠(Behavior Breakthrough Blueprint⢠+ 12âWeek Plan)
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Calm Home Progress Trackerâ˘
Calm Home Hotlineâ˘
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Plus, You Also GetâŚ
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Bonus 1: Calm Home Playbook
A physical or digital binder with our best tools in one place behavior guides, visual supports, checklists, and parent reflection worksheets so youâre not digging through emails when things get hard. Youâll have a simple âgrabâandâgoâ playbook for common situations at home.
Bonus 2: Family Alignment System
Guided conversations and tools to help parents get on the same page about expectations, boundaries, and language. We help you reduce âgood cop / bad copâ dynamics so your child isnât getting mixed messages from the adults they depend on.
Bonus 3: School Alliance Support Program + School Tool Kit
Resources and support to help you talk to school more confidently and advocate for your child. Youâll get practical tools for understanding plans and paperwork, plus simple strategies you can share with teachers so home and school are working from the same page.
Our Clarity & Blueprint Promise.Â
We do not and cannot ethically guarantee specific behavior outcomes or timelines. Every child and family is different.
We can stand behind this:
Clarity & Blueprint Promise â
Within your first 30 days in the Calm Home Methodâ˘, you will:
- Complete your Behavior Roadmap Sessionâ˘
- Receive your written Calm Home Blueprintâ˘
- Understand the key areas weâre focusing on and why
If, at that point, you donât feel you have a clear plan and next steps, we will meet with you again at no additional program cost to review, clarify, and revise your blueprint.
This promise is about the quality of the plan and support, not a specific clinical result.
Program Investment
Extended services and repeated programs can easily add up to tens of thousands of dollars over time, especially when families are paying out of pocket for years without a clear end point.Â
Families often tell us they spent years in different services before this, at a total cost far beyond what this 12âweek program requires.
Calm Home Method⢠is different:
- Defined 12âweek program
- Highâtouch, inâhome support
- Parent + child + family alignment, not just âdropâoffâ sessions
Calm Home Method⢠is a highâtouch, 12âweek privateâpay program. Most families invest between $6,000 and $10,000 for the full program, depending on level of support, location, and complexity of needs.
Payment for the program is due in full before services begin. If needed, we offer a layaway option where you can make installments over time and start once the balance is paid in full.
On your call, weâll:
- Recommend the level of support that fits your family
- Walk through the exact investment
- Answer your questions openly so you can decide with clarity
Who the Calm Home Method⢠Is For
â San Diego parents of kids roughly 4â12 whose big behaviors (meltdowns, aggression, shutdowns, refusals) are disrupting daily life at home
â Parents who feel like theyâve tried everything â books, podcasts, parenting courses, school support, even therapy â and are still walking on eggshells
â Parents exhausted by daily power struggles, arguments, and âsimple thingsâ (getting dressed, homework, bedtime, leaving the house) turning into battles
â Parents getting frequent calls from school about behavior, suspensions, or âwe donât know what else to do,â and who want a plan that actually works at home
â Parents who are ready to be actively involved, practice new tools in real life, and invest in a highâtouch, 12âweek program to change whatâs happening in their family
đĄ If youâre tired of feeling like every day is about preventing the next explosion and you just want a calmer, more predictable home, youâre in the right place.
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Questions Parents Ask Before They Book
If youâre considering the Calm Home Method⢠for your family, you might be wondering aboutâŚ
Who is the Calm Home Method⢠for?
Is the Calm Home Method⢠covered by insurance?
Can we use our HSA/FSA for Calm Home Method?
What will we cover on the Calm Home Call?
Is the Calm Home Call really free? Is there any obligation?
Is this therapy?
Do we need a diagnosis?
How much time will this take each week?
Is this only in San Diego?
What if my partner isnât fully on board yet?
How long before we might notice changes?
What happens after 12 weeks?
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If youâre feeling overwhelmed, youâre not alone. These parents started where you are â then took the first step and worked a plan.
These are individual experiences; every family is different, but they show whatâs possible when you have a clear Calm Home plan.
đĄ Your journey can start with one call. Letâs create a plan that works for your family.
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